To commemorate her life and outstanding contribution to today’s society, we’ve collected some of her wisest words we should all live by.
- On having a real impact.
“Fight for the things you care about, but do it in a way that will lead others to join you.”
-Speaking at Harvard Law School, 2015
- On true professionalism.
“I tell law students… if you are going to be a lawyer and just practice your profession, you have a skill—very much like a plumber. If you want to be a true professional, you will do something outside yourself. Something to repair tears in your community. Something to make life a little better for people less fortunate than you. That’s what I think a meaningful life is—living not for oneself, but for one’s community.”
- Stanford Memorial Church, 2012
- On dissent.
"Dissents speak to a future age. It's not simply to say: “My colleagues are wrong and I would do it this way”. But the greatest dissents do become court opinions and gradually over time their views become the dominant view. So that's the dissenter's hope: that they are writing not for today, but for tomorrow."
-In an interview on NPR’s Morning Edition, 2002
- On anger.
“When a thoughtless or unkind word is spoken, best tune out. Reacting in anger or annoyance will not advance one’s ability to persuade.”
-The New York Times, 2016
“Don’t be distracted by emotions like anger, envy, resentment. These just zap energy and waste time.”

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- On patience and persistency.
“Generally, change in our society is incremental. Real change, enduring change, happens one step at a time.”
- On the meaning of ‘being a lady’.
“My mother told me to be a lady. And for her, that meant be your own person, be independent. Women belong in all places where decisions are being made. It shouldn’t be that women are the exception.”
-In an interview with USA Today, 2009
- On feminism.
“Feminism [is the] notion that we should each be free to develop our own talents and not be held back by manmade barriers.”
- On ‘having it all’
"I just read Anne-Marie Slaughter's book. She talked about “we don’t have it all”. Who does? I’ve had it all in the course of my life, but at different times."
-The New York Times, 2015
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